If you have to ask a person to do right by you the truth is you are with the wrong person. If you are with a person where you greatly disagree with what is the “right thing”, you might be with the wrong person.
Systems Thinking gives a more accurate picture of the situation because the person is looking at the entire picture along with the pieces instead of the pieces as single components.
Everyone starts of with zero readers so we have all been there. The point remains that sometimes showing those stats can cripple you instead of help you.