Many spouses got involved with people of the opposite sex online and did not think they were doing anything wrong. Seriously?

Seems Internet cheating is on the rise. The number one complaint:

“The number one complaint from men was lack of sex in the marriage,” said Ms Mileham. “Many of them said their wife was so involved in child-rearing that she wasn’t interested in having sex.”

That’s cause she’s tired. If the guy helped out more, she would have more free time, have more energy and would be in the mood more.

I just don’t get it. Men want kids, yet they don’t want to do 50% of the work. Note I said 50%. If you aren’t willing to do half of the child’s laundry, meals, expenses, and all the other child rearing responsibilities – for the next 18 years, don’t have a child. Period.

Children are being born for the wrong reasons. Cause I’m getting older. Cause my marriage is falling apart. Cause I want that man to be with me for the rest of my life. Those are not good reasons to have a child.

Ok, I am so losing my point here. 🙂

“Most spouses who got involved with the opposite sex over the internet did not think they were doing anything wrong, said the report by a University of Florida researcher.”

That’s a bunch of crock. Ask them to do it with their spouse sitting right next to them and watch them turn green. They would never do that with their spouse in the room? Why? You know why.

It seems people are losing control over their emotions more and more. They just react without thinking first. I got upset and said something I shouldn’t have. I got drunk and posted something I have to retract. I cheated cause I just couldn’t fight it anymore. I couldn’t resist buying all this stuff now I have no money and a lot of debt. WTF?

The whole point in being an adult is not acting like a child. Everyone messes up – that’s life. But if you do the same thing over and over again, you are not making a mistake. You are just messed up. So grow up.